Cailey Darling for president!
Meet Cailey Darling, a plus-size blogger, who has amazing green hair and absolutely no tolerance for nonsense.
She posted a photo on Instagram May 18 in her new bathing suit from Gabi Fresh’s swimsuitsforall linethat showed off her curves. But the comments quickly turned negative, with followers calling Darling “disgusting” and “unhealthy.”
However, style blogger Cailey Darling did the exact opposite, and instead, responded to the trolls by posting even more photos of herself in the swimsuit, along with a powerful message regarding body shaming.
Once I started actively trying not to judge others based on appearances, I slowly started to see beauty in the people around me. Soon enough, I could look at a body like mine and see beauty where society told me I wouldn’t find it. It took a long time to apply those concepts to my own body. It started with letting go of judgement of others. I hope you notice in my arguments that I try very hard not to bring appearances into an argument because I believe if you’re making fun of someone’s weight, clothes, teeth, makeup, hair, etc., then you have run out of material and you do not have anything to argue about anymore. If you’re bringing someone down for appearances during an argument, then you’ve lost the argument. To put it plainly, I do not condone any body shaming at all, ever, even if it is to defend me. If you shame someone’s appearance in response to them shaming mine, then you’re not on my side. That isn’t to say I don’t defend myself. I do. I will continue to do so, because I learned to defend myself in real life by watching other fat women stand up for themselves in arguments online. It seems small, but I’ve gotten dozens of messages thanking me for actually responding because it helps them learn to defend themselves against their own bullying. I will attack their logic, opinions, poopy personality, rudeness, nastiness, self-loathing, or hatred, but never their appearance. I am here to change minds about bodies, not to shame any other types of bodies.
“Trolls can go ahead and see I’ve posted myself in this suit three times before and your hatred for my body or my health for whatever reason will not keep me from posting, wearing the suit, eating, or living my life unapologetically so your comment does nothing but waste your time.”
“Once I started actively trying not to judge others based on appearances, I slowly started to see beauty in the people around me,” she said. “Soon enough, I could look at a body like mine and see beauty where society told me I wouldn’t find it. It took a long time to apply those concepts to my own body. It started with letting go of judgement of others.”